Finding Love Can Be Tough
If you Google love or romance you’ll come up with a whole host of different approaches to wooing someone you care about. There’s a lot of different advice and theories, some great and some not so great. But one thing that often gets overlooked is the real causative root of the equation. And that is, sometimes life really sucks! If you are together with a loved one for any length of time it will reach past the honeymoon period, and possibly several cycles past such, into a very empty arena. What do you do when there are accrued woundings, comprehensive stressors, unresolved issues and/or unbearable pressures? Finding love can definitely seem completely hopeless.
Any decently wise adult knows there are no magical pills that truly take care of these kinds of issues. But one thing for sure – these dynamics can either be a beautiful wake-up call or designation for destruction. The choice we each have to make truly is our own. Yes, I know it is sooo very easy to blame and be highly selective in our dolling out of either encouragement or criticism, but it is still our choice to make.
Surprise of a fresh perspective
A great book was written a while back called, “Love is a Choice” by Dr. Paul Meier…where he lets us in on the power of our freedom to choose, to truly love in a non-destructive way (challenging codependency). Pastor Rick Warren says, “Love doesn’t just happen to you.” So, if we really are free to make that choice each and every day why don’t we just do it? Yeah right, so much easier said than done. You know, there really is help if you’d like to get things back on the right track. Hey, even if you don’t really know if you want it anymore, that’s okay…been there, done that. And if honest, most REAL healthy folks as well. Give us a call. It just might surprise you how a fresh perspective could completely over-haul your love life!