Whether you have been together with your significant other for a short time or quite awhile, there is a genuine possibility that something (or someone) might come between you two. What you do to assertively deal with this impasse is the most important thing to focus on. This could be financial or communication difficulties, spiritual or sexual tensions, parenting disunity, in-laws or out-laws (people who get in the way). It could also be value differences, not knowing how to get or give respect or genuine nurturance, as well as differences of love languages (of the five). There might be personality or temperament differences, hobbies that you don’t have in common, or a myriad of other very key things. Marriage counseling and coaching are statistically proven to make a serious difference.
Differences in relationships aren’t a matter of if, but when they will happen. You’ve possibly heard of the couple who never had any disagreements or incompatibility for all the years of their relationship. Well, they are either in complete denial, liars or dead. I mean seriously, read any ancient text from any civilization or religious world view and you’ll come up with the same conclusion.
All humans are created for the purpose of overcoming. What in the world do you think will be the main thing we’re going to need to overcome? You guessed it…potential walls that come up between folks as they learn how to truly LIVE life together. If you check out all of the “one-another” scriptures in the Bible for example, you will learn a wealth of truth that will set you free. They will validate your feelings, thoughts, concerns, and provide real life answers.
If you would like help navigating the uncharted waters of relationship healing and desire to truly be set free from mind-binding walls, traps, confusion, or quicksand, then give us a call. Let us come alongside and help you tear down the walls between you and help stop the tearing down of each other.